Playing it cool can sometimes be difficult when you find a girl that you really like. These moments at the beginning of a relationship are the best. She's beautiful and funny and you could talk to her forever. You connect on so many levels and she's all you think about. You really want things to work out but you're freaked out that you're going to mess things up. You don't want to say the wrong things but you want to be sure that the relationship moves along. How do you walk that line that borders showing interest without going overboard? How can you let her know that you're really interested in her without blowing it?
Before you blow a fuse, relax. Everything is fine. Both of you are getting to know each other and you're enjoying spending time together. Even though you might be tempted to confront the question of where everything is heading by bringing the subject up, avoid this temptation at all cost. At this point, that question is on both of your minds but the first one to utter the words loses. A woman, in particular, will find you to be weak or needy if you start asking such questions. Simply be happy with how things are going and before too long you'll have your answer without even having to ask the question. It's somewhat like a staring match and the first one to blink loses.
Next, just be yourself. Too many guys put a lot of effort into portraying themselves as something that they're not while hoping to impress a girl. Avoid talking too much about yourself and instead focus on getting to know her. Bring her out of her shell and get her to share he hopes, dreams and aspirations with you. People, in general, like to talk about themselves so give her the chance to try to impress you. As a result, she will feel that you are truly interested in her and this line of dialogue will give her a feeling of being connected to you. When you take this approach, everything in the relationship happens naturally and you don't have to worry.
Acting nervous or worrying about things can ruin even the best laid plans. Avoid being nervous at all cost. It sends a message to a woman that you are weak or that something is wrong. She won't feel safe with you. When you feel inadequate or nervous around her, take a few moments to gather your thoughts. Escape to the bathroom after excusing yourself. Duck out and pretend that you're trying to find something in your car or otherwise find five minutes alone to pull yourself together. Remind yourself that she already likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be spending time with you. Don't blow it now after you have already overcome two of the three hurdles in making her want you completely. You have attracted her and created a strong bond with her. This is the time for you to really shine and not your opportunity to fall apart. You are the man.
While, at times, it can feel like you have no idea what is going to happen in this relationship, when you look back you will see that the signs of success were right there all along. Romance and dating a beautiful woman can be a little crazy at times. There are ups and downs but the dance can be fun if you allow it to be so. Try not to be in a hurry to become an old married couple or fall into a rut. The days when you will feel completely secure in your relationship with the woman of your dreams is fast approaching. Enjoy these exciting early days in the relationship and be the man. The future stability of this relationship is depending upon you to set the tone for the years to come.
Before you blow a fuse, relax. Everything is fine. Both of you are getting to know each other and you're enjoying spending time together. Even though you might be tempted to confront the question of where everything is heading by bringing the subject up, avoid this temptation at all cost. At this point, that question is on both of your minds but the first one to utter the words loses. A woman, in particular, will find you to be weak or needy if you start asking such questions. Simply be happy with how things are going and before too long you'll have your answer without even having to ask the question. It's somewhat like a staring match and the first one to blink loses.
Next, just be yourself. Too many guys put a lot of effort into portraying themselves as something that they're not while hoping to impress a girl. Avoid talking too much about yourself and instead focus on getting to know her. Bring her out of her shell and get her to share he hopes, dreams and aspirations with you. People, in general, like to talk about themselves so give her the chance to try to impress you. As a result, she will feel that you are truly interested in her and this line of dialogue will give her a feeling of being connected to you. When you take this approach, everything in the relationship happens naturally and you don't have to worry.
Acting nervous or worrying about things can ruin even the best laid plans. Avoid being nervous at all cost. It sends a message to a woman that you are weak or that something is wrong. She won't feel safe with you. When you feel inadequate or nervous around her, take a few moments to gather your thoughts. Escape to the bathroom after excusing yourself. Duck out and pretend that you're trying to find something in your car or otherwise find five minutes alone to pull yourself together. Remind yourself that she already likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be spending time with you. Don't blow it now after you have already overcome two of the three hurdles in making her want you completely. You have attracted her and created a strong bond with her. This is the time for you to really shine and not your opportunity to fall apart. You are the man.
While, at times, it can feel like you have no idea what is going to happen in this relationship, when you look back you will see that the signs of success were right there all along. Romance and dating a beautiful woman can be a little crazy at times. There are ups and downs but the dance can be fun if you allow it to be so. Try not to be in a hurry to become an old married couple or fall into a rut. The days when you will feel completely secure in your relationship with the woman of your dreams is fast approaching. Enjoy these exciting early days in the relationship and be the man. The future stability of this relationship is depending upon you to set the tone for the years to come.
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