Are you unsure if the man that you're attracted to is interested in you? Are there times when you think that he's attracted to you yet at other times you're just not sure? Short of coming out and asking him if he likes you, how can you tell if he's attracted to you? How do you know if he is thinking the same things that you are? What signs will tell you if a man is attracted to you or not?
Men can be a bit of a mystery sometimes. Most men are taught from the time that they are very small to hide their emotions and to suppress what they feel from outsiders. This doesn't mean that a man's feelings are completely hidden. Often a guy will express his emotions without even thinking about it. He may struggle with how he feels about you or he might not even know how he feels but his body will give you clues to what lies beneath the surface.
First, has he ever touched you or do you remember a time when you remarked to yourself that it seemed like he was an affectionate kind of guy. Maybe he touches your arm or your shoulder when he's talking to you. Perhaps he has touched your back as you walk through a door in front of him. A man's desire to connect with you is difficult to hide and for some men this is a way to be affectionate during the beginning stages of a relationship without the risk. If he's touching you then there is a very good chance that he is attracted to you.
There are people and cultures where touching is encouraged or a part of their culture. In many countries, it's common for people to touch more often with others they feel comfortable or close to. It could be that he touches many people when he talks to them. Try to take notice and see if it's just you that he touches when he's talking or if he does this with everyone. No matter what you discover, if he is touching you then there is a connection and a warm place in his heart for you that can lead to bigger and better things.
Have you noticed how your man stands when he's talking with you? In what direction do his feet point? There's a saying that a man's feet point in the direction of what he desires in his heart. If his feet are pointing towards you then this is a good clue that he wants you. Also, if he faces you directly when speaking with you then this is a good sign also. This should tell you that he is open and that he feels comfortable with you. He's ready for the relationship to move forward.
Of course, there are guys that have been hurt in the past who might not abide by this rule. Shy guys will often avoid directly facing a woman that they are interested in. Also, if you're at a bar, it might be more difficult to face you directly than if you are sitting across from each other at a small table in a restaurant. Take notice the next time you are alone together. Notice if he faces you directly and what direction his feet are pointing.
The next time you meet the man of your dreams and you're alone, take a look at his eyes when he greets you. Do his eyes have a sparkle to them when he smiles at you? His body's reaction to seeing you will be unmistakable if he is falling in love with you. When a man begins to fall in love he will smile and his eyes will sparkle when he sees you. He will be unable to control this reaction so keep an eye out the next time you see him and you'll know for sure if he's attracted to you.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If you notice any of these signs then there is a very good chance that the man that you're interested in does have feelings for you. Take notice and do your best not to scare him off. Many men are poor at understanding and communicating their emotions. Allow his body language to tell you everything that you need to know and move forward without a word. Many of the best men are shy and awkward so if you are interested in him, let his body do all the talking for now. There will be plenty of time in the future for him to tell you how he truly feels once his emotions overcome his instincts not to show his feelings.
Men can be a bit of a mystery sometimes. Most men are taught from the time that they are very small to hide their emotions and to suppress what they feel from outsiders. This doesn't mean that a man's feelings are completely hidden. Often a guy will express his emotions without even thinking about it. He may struggle with how he feels about you or he might not even know how he feels but his body will give you clues to what lies beneath the surface.
First, has he ever touched you or do you remember a time when you remarked to yourself that it seemed like he was an affectionate kind of guy. Maybe he touches your arm or your shoulder when he's talking to you. Perhaps he has touched your back as you walk through a door in front of him. A man's desire to connect with you is difficult to hide and for some men this is a way to be affectionate during the beginning stages of a relationship without the risk. If he's touching you then there is a very good chance that he is attracted to you.
There are people and cultures where touching is encouraged or a part of their culture. In many countries, it's common for people to touch more often with others they feel comfortable or close to. It could be that he touches many people when he talks to them. Try to take notice and see if it's just you that he touches when he's talking or if he does this with everyone. No matter what you discover, if he is touching you then there is a connection and a warm place in his heart for you that can lead to bigger and better things.
Have you noticed how your man stands when he's talking with you? In what direction do his feet point? There's a saying that a man's feet point in the direction of what he desires in his heart. If his feet are pointing towards you then this is a good clue that he wants you. Also, if he faces you directly when speaking with you then this is a good sign also. This should tell you that he is open and that he feels comfortable with you. He's ready for the relationship to move forward.
Of course, there are guys that have been hurt in the past who might not abide by this rule. Shy guys will often avoid directly facing a woman that they are interested in. Also, if you're at a bar, it might be more difficult to face you directly than if you are sitting across from each other at a small table in a restaurant. Take notice the next time you are alone together. Notice if he faces you directly and what direction his feet are pointing.
The next time you meet the man of your dreams and you're alone, take a look at his eyes when he greets you. Do his eyes have a sparkle to them when he smiles at you? His body's reaction to seeing you will be unmistakable if he is falling in love with you. When a man begins to fall in love he will smile and his eyes will sparkle when he sees you. He will be unable to control this reaction so keep an eye out the next time you see him and you'll know for sure if he's attracted to you.
You might think that if he looks down or appears to avoid eye contact with you that your relationship is done for. The opposite might be true, actually. Shy guys and men who have been hurt in a relationship are often cautious about revealing their feelings. They will sometimes look away or look down as a sign of submission when they come face to face with a woman that they find attractive. Don't worry though, as you grow closer to each other he will begin to trust you and you'll get to see those sparkling eyes all you want.
If you notice any of these signs then there is a very good chance that the man that you're interested in does have feelings for you. Take notice and do your best not to scare him off. Many men are poor at understanding and communicating their emotions. Allow his body language to tell you everything that you need to know and move forward without a word. Many of the best men are shy and awkward so if you are interested in him, let his body do all the talking for now. There will be plenty of time in the future for him to tell you how he truly feels once his emotions overcome his instincts not to show his feelings.
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