How to Get a Guy to Need You

By Ben E. Lake


You may have finally met the perfect man. He really is every thing that you have been needing in a boyfriend or husband, and now you want to reel him in before he gets away!

Really, you don't need to fret too much it. There are some things you can do to be sure to make him want to stay with you. There are many books written on the subject, however listed below are just a few key points:

1. Do not give others the opportunity pull him away.

Do you know what a wallflower is? In the case of relationships, a wallflower is somebody who stands against the wall and does not engage in dialog with potential suitors.

For those who wonder "how do I make him interested in me", step one is to get involved and interact him in meaningful conversations. Contrary to what you may think, he may not know that you exist! Force yourself to talk to him and say something, even if it is as simple as "Hello" (Make sure to give that great big smile)!

2. Show you are Comfortable being around him

Typically being nervous can work to in your favor. But most men don't care to hang out with someone who doesn't trust in their self. If you're too nervous to lock eyes with him, say hi to him or carry a dialog with him, he'll notice. It might turn into a disaster.

Stay calm - or mainly, stay calm on the outside. Guys can figure out when ladies are nervous and it isn't really turn on. Play it easy and he will see you as a peaceful, cool and confident sort of lady! A woman that is sure of herself attracts guys.

3. Find a Widespread Interest

The best way to make a guy like you is to spend time with him.

On the other hand, one of the best ways to spend time with him is to do one thing that you have in common.

One of the best ways to spend time with him is to do something that you both have in common. If you happen to take pleasure in sitting through a movie, but he would rather be out watching a ball game, try to find another thing that you both can enjoy - possibly you both like the outside and you can do some mountain climbing together.

Ask him to show you the ropes on packing gear for a day hike - it is possible that you know a bit more about it than he does, however that doesn't imply you can't pretend to need his help!




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