Are you hoping against all odds that you can get your boyfriend back after a break up? Do things seem hopeless yet you still wish that you could win him over? Is everyone telling you to move on and forget about him yet you still feel a deep and abiding love for your ex? Does it seem like nobody else can see that you still love him and that moving on just isn't an option for you?
You know in your hear that the only thing that is going to truly heal your heart is to get him back. You wish you could just move on like everyone is telling you but it's simply not an option right now. You love him and you feel in your heart that there is still hope. You feel that your relationship is not beyond repair and that you need to at least try to get him back.
Nobody undertands you and if it was as simple as just making a decision to move on, you would do that. You love him though. Your heart and mind are at war. You know that it would be easier in theory to just find someone else but your heart is winning this war. It does every time. You have tried to do all the logical things to win him over and bring that love that you know still dwells in his heart to the surface but his heart is cold towards you and you're at a loss for what to do. No amount of talking with him or trying to win him over with kindness is working. You know that there are people that get back together every day after a break up but nothing you're doing seems to be working. What do others do to reunite after a break up? The secret to winning him over is to get back to acting normal.
While you might be confused or frustrated with this advice, I want you to think about it for a minute. When you and your boyfriend first got together, you probably didn't have to do a thing to attract his attention. You didn't have to stand on your head and convince him that you were wonderful and a worthy person for him. You didn't have to change a thing to make him fall in love with you. He did it all on his own. You didn't play a whole lot of games other than just being your wonderful self and wait for him to make the next move.
Realizing what you're doing and how you look from his point of view can be a good exercise to help you understand where he's coming from. Would you be attracted to yourself if you were in your ex's position right now? You might think that he should be flattered that you care about and love him so much but, just like the sun, too much of a good thing can be bad. Too much sun can burn you and too much attention and affection when it's not necessarily wanted at the moment can kills the feelings of attraction even if they started to come back right after your break up.
If you truly want to get him back after a break up you need to understand how a man thinks and makes decisions. As you know, men say that they are very logical in their decision making process but you probably already know better. Men are instinctual and they react to everything in their life. They are no different than animals. Someone cuts them off in traffic and they react. Someone yells at them and they react. There is no logic in how to get him back after a break up other than knowing how to get him to react in the way that you want him to.
To leverage or exploit this fact you need to understand how to use male psychology against him to win him over. You need to stop trying to talk to him logically as you might with other decisions or aspects of his life. You need to start talking to his emotions and the love that is buried deep down inside instead of trying to convince him or win him over with your kindness and devotion. While this may seem a little bit tricky or under handed, the truth is that you probably did this back in the beginning of your relationship without even knowing it. You need to move him emotionally so it doesn't appear that you are doing anything at all and use male psychology to make him realize that he does still love you. Honestly, this is the only way to get your boyfriend back, either knowingly or unknowingly.
You know in your hear that the only thing that is going to truly heal your heart is to get him back. You wish you could just move on like everyone is telling you but it's simply not an option right now. You love him and you feel in your heart that there is still hope. You feel that your relationship is not beyond repair and that you need to at least try to get him back.
Nobody undertands you and if it was as simple as just making a decision to move on, you would do that. You love him though. Your heart and mind are at war. You know that it would be easier in theory to just find someone else but your heart is winning this war. It does every time. You have tried to do all the logical things to win him over and bring that love that you know still dwells in his heart to the surface but his heart is cold towards you and you're at a loss for what to do. No amount of talking with him or trying to win him over with kindness is working. You know that there are people that get back together every day after a break up but nothing you're doing seems to be working. What do others do to reunite after a break up? The secret to winning him over is to get back to acting normal.
While you might be confused or frustrated with this advice, I want you to think about it for a minute. When you and your boyfriend first got together, you probably didn't have to do a thing to attract his attention. You didn't have to stand on your head and convince him that you were wonderful and a worthy person for him. You didn't have to change a thing to make him fall in love with you. He did it all on his own. You didn't play a whole lot of games other than just being your wonderful self and wait for him to make the next move.
Realizing what you're doing and how you look from his point of view can be a good exercise to help you understand where he's coming from. Would you be attracted to yourself if you were in your ex's position right now? You might think that he should be flattered that you care about and love him so much but, just like the sun, too much of a good thing can be bad. Too much sun can burn you and too much attention and affection when it's not necessarily wanted at the moment can kills the feelings of attraction even if they started to come back right after your break up.
If you truly want to get him back after a break up you need to understand how a man thinks and makes decisions. As you know, men say that they are very logical in their decision making process but you probably already know better. Men are instinctual and they react to everything in their life. They are no different than animals. Someone cuts them off in traffic and they react. Someone yells at them and they react. There is no logic in how to get him back after a break up other than knowing how to get him to react in the way that you want him to.
To leverage or exploit this fact you need to understand how to use male psychology against him to win him over. You need to stop trying to talk to him logically as you might with other decisions or aspects of his life. You need to start talking to his emotions and the love that is buried deep down inside instead of trying to convince him or win him over with your kindness and devotion. While this may seem a little bit tricky or under handed, the truth is that you probably did this back in the beginning of your relationship without even knowing it. You need to move him emotionally so it doesn't appear that you are doing anything at all and use male psychology to make him realize that he does still love you. Honestly, this is the only way to get your boyfriend back, either knowingly or unknowingly.
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