Chief Tips To Single Muslims Aspiring Marriage

By Ann Perry


Acknowledging someone to be deeming fitting for your lifetime partner is not an easy task especially for a Muslim. Single Muslims have always had hard times identifying the right person especially because they dispense dating unlike many cultures and societies in the world. For a Muslim believer, meeting a marriage partner completes half their faith and Allah perceives it as a form of worship. Therefore, one must uphold purity by all means possible. Throughout the article, singles will identify fundamental tips to mull over in order to have an irrefutable lifetime partner juggling encounter.

Primarily, a Muslim gentleman or lady should always exercise patience throughout their juggling endeavors. Identifying a lifetime partner must be based on patience but not haste decisions. Over the years, the millennial generations are faced with a common tendency of being haste even while choosing a long term relationship partner. The right person to marry will never appear like in the movies but will demand time; hence patience.

Be abreast with all voluntary activities organized by your Mosque or any Muslim group activity. These activities will always bring together believers of the opposite sex and avail a golden opportunity for you to interact and finally identify a promising lifelong spouse; the fact that you both are volunteers and worship at the same Mosque matters great a deal.

Online dating has emerged to be an indispensable platform for young people to identify life time partners. Therefore, seek out websites dedicated to Muslims only and generate your profile. How you create your profile will determine the perception people get about you. Always ensure to make smart choices; choices that are wise and healthy.

While meeting a person of the opposite sex for the first time, make sure to have the company of a trusted adult. Chaperoning is highly recommended in the Muslim society. Be keen to only consider keeping the meeting light and very friendly. Also, keep it real and simple. For example, a lunch or attending an activity together might be ideal.

Respect and care must blend throughout your first meeting. Appreciate the other person for who they are and what they believe in. There are cases where you might feel not wired. Ladies will always aspire to recognize the husband material in you and therefore you must conduct yourself. Be attentive to their words and be keen to keep it real. The best way to stay safe is to acquire literal meaning of all their utterances.

Talking to your parents is indispensable. In other words, you need to garner wise counsel from them on the simple things you need to mull over. Also, seek for suggestions on the best person to meet; parents will always have a clue of the best partner for you. Having been married for years, their counsel is purely based on fundamental and practical lessons they have learned about long term relationships while in long term relationship.

Being honest will save you a lot of trouble, hustles and hassles. Therefore, be yourself and keep it real. Never try forgery while looking for a lifetime partner. Your profile matters a lot and if founded on deception and lies, it will surely fail. Note, honesty is vitally irrefutable as long as marriage is concerned.

Finally, a devoted believer in the Muslim faith must always seek the guidance of Allah as identified in the Quran. Therefore, trend in purity and Allah who is gracious and merciful will shower you with wisdom and counsel sufficient for your search efforts for the lifetime partner. Eventually, you will not only have a safe and smooth encounter but a prizewinning one.




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