Things To Learn From Counseling Porn Addiction

By Richard Hayes


It often starts little, the desire to watch naked men and women having sex on the phones, laptops and other internet devices. From one incident to another, the urge gradually builds up until it becomes almost impossible to stay some days without watching one more video. Internet porn is a scourge affecting many youths in the world today and it is almost impossible to find one person of adult age who will tell you that he or she has no idea of what it looks like.

After watching one porn, the urge to view another comes, even when it is not the intention of the viewer to do such frequently. Pornography has a way of trapping people to become slaves to it forever such that even when the person never gave it a thought to watch any sex movie at a particular time, the decision to watch it can be taken in as little as five minutes. Such people need counseling porn addiction sessions to be free from this

One of the things you will be told in the counseling is the need to put away your devices for a while. If you use a smart phone for instance, you may have to sell it off to buy one that cannot even browse the internet. With no phone such as your smart phone, you will be cut off from any possibility of viewing those images and videos.

Another thing you may be told is the need to share the challenge with someone else. Even though this looks difficult, it is one of the most effective ways to stop pornography addiction. Just make sure you choose an honest friend who is also a confidant. Make it a point of duty to tell your friend about your latest temptations and how you were able to resist them.

If you are ready to invest in this challenge, you are likelier to succeed than if you only pay lip service to it. You can invest in some software that blocks adult content and pornographic sites from loading on your internet devices. Just make sure to include it on every device your hand can reach and soon, the challenge will be over.

Also, find out if there are new hobbies you can learn. The trick is to start practicing that new skill the moment the urge to watch sex clips comes to your mind. Things, like skipping the rope, joining others in a discussion, playing football or visiting the gym, can help in no small measure.

Also, make sure you are not in the room alone. Pornography is designed to make people explore sexual fantasies when they are in the secret so avoiding lonely situations and places will help you to disconnect from the tendency to watch the clips. Always have one or two friends in the same room with you especially if that person abhors the act.

Pornography addiction is easier to deal with when one knows how bad it is. It is important to know that watching pornography exposes one to strange spirits which can manifest through the person. Moreover, a person who watches such scenes frequently gradually loses interest in any real physical contact with the opposite sex because such contacts are not as intense as what porn portrays. This brings about lower sex drives between couples and reduced affection for each other.




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