Love The Man In Him

By Evan Sanders


He isn't going to be perfect. Actually he might be different than you thought he would ever be. He is going to screw up, fail again and again, and lose himself sometimes. He will be in doubt, insecure at times , and let you down. His fluidity at times when the sea roars will baffle you. His eerie silence when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He will, occasionally, escape into his anger, disappointment, and nervousness. He will suffer and wrench deep within his soul. He's going to need to leave for a bit, going off on his very own to answer questions only tranquility will supply him with. He is going to have times where he is weak in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he has been powerful in the world too long. He will undoubtedly go back and forth in his decisions on occasion and you may question whether he'll ever make them. He'll do all these things and plenty more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you love the man, he will be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life when you need him. He's going to be your best and greatest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he'll be there for you in any fashion he is able to. If you deeply love the man, he is going to stand in light of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and regardless of how much the blackness of your emotions seem to test him, he can always stand firm. If you love the man, he is going to push you to dream big and help you see the bigger picture. He can bring something out in you that you never thought you could have in your life. If you adore the imperfect man, he is going to help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you love the man he'll be your equal, knowing that together you could be more than you might ever be apart. If you love the man he's going to love you as much as he truly loves life itself, way down knowing you are his joy and he is your light.

He's going to want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you adore the man you will waken grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he can gather and he is going to share them with you because somewhere way down inside in his heart he actually does trust you.

When you have a real man in your life, he will be certain inside all of this undeniable uncertainty. He's going to disappear to find his answers and come back to you repeatedly. He will be able to writhe with his calls and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the greatest adventures of your life. He will feel his insecurity and doubt, and trot out a confidence that may settle your heart. If you really love the this imperfect man, he's going to look at you and not have to say anything, because he is able to feel into you and already knows what your heart desires. If you love the man, he is going to do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It might not appear like you thought it might, but if you love the man in him, he will bring a love out in you that may light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the world and the lives of many.




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