Selecting An Appropriate Tombstone Gravestone

By Peggy Lithgo


Many people find it quite difficult to accept the passing of a loved one. They feel such a sense of loss that coping with their grief can be very trying. Most find that installing a Grave Memorial that represents the personality of the deceased not only pays homage to their memory but provides a physical link for those left behind.

This is one reason it is so important that the perfect burial marker be chosen. It should reflect the style and personality of the individual whose life it represents as it is intended to be a monument to their life. The range of design options and material choices are simply staggering, which makes it easier to find something that is a fitting tribute.

Monuments of this type can be made out of several different materials, each with their own points of attraction. They may be constructed from substances such as concrete, wood, limestone, marble, brass or stainless steel. Granite and bronze are the products most often used because they are both versatile, attractive, easy to maintain and resistant to even harsh weather conditions like snow storms and acidic rains.

Many cemeteries place restrictions on the types of markers that are allowed, so this is a factor that one will need to consider when making their selection. Sometimes these regulations are in place as a way to keep the overall look neat and consistent, or it could be a matter of easy maintenance. Whatever the reasons, there are still many ways in which a gravestone may be personalized to the individual's style.

When one chooses a material such as granite, they have many options in color, texture and detail. This stone is so versatile that it comes not only in the standard grey, but in white, pink, red, blue, green and black. The surface can be left in its basic matte finish or polished to a high gloss shine that resembles a mirror and is perfect for etching.

Details may be added to make the design more personal. This may mean having a favorite passage, verse or symbol etched into the surface. Many people find that the Victorian practice of incorporating a weather proofed photo frame into the monument is a truly inspired way to make the tribute special since it immortalizes the individuals likeness for generations to come.

There are decals that may be added to the headstone to show membership in an organization or military service. Seating, vases, planters and statues are just a few of the ways a grave memorial could be made truly special. It is even possible to have solar lighting installed so that the marker will be forever illuminated.




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