Fun Ways To Revitalize Your Marriage

By Ella Hemmings


Our daily lives are so busy and filled with stress that we often forget to focus on the truly important relationships in our lives, especially the bond we have with a spouse. Trying to reconnect definitely can seem difficult, but with some imagination and a bit of effort, one can get that sparkle back. Consider the following helpful hints to help you revive the passion.

Sometimes all it takes is a commitment to get out together one night each week, just the two of you. Try to plan an evening out at least two or three times each month. A simple dinner and movie night is perfectly fun, but you also could consider attending a concert or touring a local museum or even just getting out for a cup of coffee or even taking a walk.

Of course, your weekly date doesn't always have to be at night. You can head out to the local lake or harbor and enjoy some paddle boarding or a kayak trek. Go hiking in a cool, nearby wilderness area or enjoy a morning shopping for curiosities at a big flea market. If you both like golf or bowling, why not go and do that? Capitalize on any shared interest that you have. So often we spend weekends doing chores, but we really need to make a point to enjoy something fun together.

Readjust your attitude toward your spouse. Remember back to those days when you were dating and having fun? Being the girlfriend or boyfriend doesn't have to stop once you exchange your vows. Send a flirty text now and then or slip a sweet note into your spouse's lunch. Sometimes one spouse has to be the one to make the first move, but usually with a little effort, the other spouse will enjoy the attention and give some back.

Often a change of scene will kick start your marriage rejuvenation plan so don't be shy about asking family or trusted friends to watch your kids for a few days so that you can get away. You might take a long weekend and head up to the mountains or a cute bed and breakfast or perhaps somewhere tropical and tranquil. An island getaway, such as a trip to Maui, is a fantastic way to get out of the daily grind and enjoy some much-needed couple time.

If you do plan a Maui getaway, surprise your partner with a truly romantic gesture, such as a vow renewal ceremony right on the beach. Contact Love Maui Weddings and let these experienced Maui wedding planners handle all the details. They offer a special vow renewal package for just $299, entitled "Love, Always." This sublime package includes a ceremony right on the beach, the minister's services, a copy of your vows, a keepsake bottle of sand and even freshly made leis for the happy couple. You are sure to return home refreshed, renewed and inspired to keep your relationship happy and full of romance.




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