The Occurrence Of Male Wives

By Gwen Lowe


In this age and era, things are happening in the name of fitting into the modern times. There are many phenomena taking place all over the world. One of them is the tremendous rise of these kind of wives who are so many than we can ever imagine. The gender roles are greatly shifting. The modern men do not have the masculinity mentality which the elder people used to have. This is the male wives do not find any reason to shy away as according to them what they are doing is for the good of their families.

What this means is that the husbands are taking up their partners roles in the marriage. There are also wives who are for this, and they assume the roles of their husbands as well especially by being the bread winner. Even at workplaces, more women are rising to power now more than before. These women are being empowered, and they fail to separate their authority at work from their home lives.

These he-partners then come about as a result of trying to cope with such strong willed women whom seemingly can do what a man is capable of or even better . This is especially if they are able to earn enough money for them and the children. In this case, the husband is left with no choice but to assume her roles which are less demanding, for the sake of peace in that house.

For some men, they will do this as a way of showing love to their mates. Rather than an expression of weakness, they mean to show how much they care. It is also a way of taking a break from the fatiguing role and just chill in the house as the woman makes the ends meet.

Men who are married to women with a do not care attitude and dominant personality will also be in such a situation. Since these characters are aggressive and would do all it takes to have the final say, the man ends up stepping down for them. The male partner will give the female control over all that pertains to their relationship and family.

It is important to understand that love drives this kind of change in families. You find that the menfolk are so willing to abandon their control so as to support their wives whom they love. They will cook, clean and even look after the kids as their wives go to attend to their careers.

This effect is so much that a male wife might start wearing women clothes while at home. Many may be quick to say they are gay, but it does not have to be so. To add on this, some even put on makeup. All they need is just a feel of being a woman and it should be understood so.

These males who are behaving like women can be looked down upon by fellow men and term them as a disgrace to the male fraternity. The opposite could be the plain truth that they just are men enough to take care of their wives. It is never the ego that shows how a man is good enough, but how much he can go out of his way to be there for his family.




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