Choices Offered By Cemeteries In NJ

By Marsha Klein


Making decisions after the unexpected loss of a loved one is heartbreaking. Making final arrangements can be an arduous task when added to the physical and emotional pain of loss. This article is designed to present you with some of the choices provided by cemeteries in NJ.

Call a few funeral homes to request detailed price lists. Speak with family members to determine if the recently departed had expressed their desires regarding their final arrangements. Discuss with family members if cremation or burial is the best option. Determine if the cost of each will effect your decision. Make your decisions based on the information you have gathered. Don't base your decisions strictly on price or emotion.

Choosing the burial plot, you will need to consider location and some other factors. If your loved one was someone who enjoyed being outside in the sunlight, choose a plot that will receive direct sun for most of the day. If they loved flowers, you might choose a plot that is adjacent to flowering shrubbery. Most cemeteries will provide upkeep of the grounds.

Speak with the establishment to request a price list for cremation. Sit with family members to discuss this as an option. Keep in mind, if you choose this option, you will need to choose an urn and a place to display it. Communicate with the director regarding public versus private placement of the urn.

Mausoleums provide yet another option. This provides for the final resting place to be above ground. Many mortuaries will provide indoor and outdoor mausoleums for you to choose from.

Consecrating the body in a timely manner is very important. In New Jersey, the burial must take place within 48 hours, if the body has not been embalmed. If the final disposition has not taken place within that amount of time, the body must be embalmed in accordance with state law.

Selection of gravestones, markers or monuments is the next step. A monument is a wonderful way to show the world how you wish to commemorate your loved one. Speak with the director. Ask for an itemized price list, complete with pictures, to make your decision making process more simplified. Sit with family members to discuss your options.

Most people choose to send flowers to show their love, support and appreciation for the deceased. If you decide that you would rather have people make donations to a charitable organization, speak with the establishment to request a list of charitable organizations to choose from. Many times people will already have an organization in mind.

When you are concerned about which cemeteries in NJ to use, make several phone calls. Call several different establishments. Request itemized price lists and information. Include family members in the decision making process. Remember your loved one's wishes as you walk through the process.




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