It's likely to happen. Sometimes you can't do anything to stop it. There are bound to be a few disagreements when a pair of individual people come together. But it's totally natural. But we know it's hard to get over a fight when you are so far apart, so we've outlined a few suggestions below to help you through the situation.
Things to Remember During a Fight
Think About What You Say Before You Say It
Some people end up saying some terrible things when in a heavy argument. We understand that you might be mad at each other. And it may totally be their fault. And you may be a total angel too. But remember to choose your words thoughtfully. Take in some long deep breaths and think it over before you say anything. This can help to shield your significant others feelings and is sure to speed up the making up process.
Use Limited Contact Until Your Tensions Have Levelled Out
It's no good talking to them while you are still upset with them. The best idea is to end all communication until you both have cooled down and are ready to make up with each other. No text messages. No phone calls. No Skype.
The Making-Up Process
Forget About Placing The Blame
It's not about whose fault it is. It's about what the issue is, and how to handle it. If you argue over something that they don't like about you, then it could be time to change the something they don't like. A number of people have an, "I won't change for anyone" attitude in a relationship. While research has shown us that the ones that do change are the ones that have a stronger relationship with each other.
Remember You Are Both On The Same Side
If you're going to improve as a couple then you're going to have to learn how to make important decisions together. These decisions will shape your future. If you love each other, and are both active in the relationship, then you will both want to work towards the same positive end result. Never forget that you are each on the same side.
Send An Apology Letter
A nice touch after you have made up is to mail your companion a letter saying that you are sorry for hurting their feelings. Try to make your feelings about the argument known, but remember to let your lover know that you do not want to argue anymore. Possibly send a present along with it, or a photo that will help remind them of a joyful time you both spent together.
Things to Remember During a Fight
Think About What You Say Before You Say It
Some people end up saying some terrible things when in a heavy argument. We understand that you might be mad at each other. And it may totally be their fault. And you may be a total angel too. But remember to choose your words thoughtfully. Take in some long deep breaths and think it over before you say anything. This can help to shield your significant others feelings and is sure to speed up the making up process.
Use Limited Contact Until Your Tensions Have Levelled Out
It's no good talking to them while you are still upset with them. The best idea is to end all communication until you both have cooled down and are ready to make up with each other. No text messages. No phone calls. No Skype.
The Making-Up Process
Forget About Placing The Blame
It's not about whose fault it is. It's about what the issue is, and how to handle it. If you argue over something that they don't like about you, then it could be time to change the something they don't like. A number of people have an, "I won't change for anyone" attitude in a relationship. While research has shown us that the ones that do change are the ones that have a stronger relationship with each other.
Remember You Are Both On The Same Side
If you're going to improve as a couple then you're going to have to learn how to make important decisions together. These decisions will shape your future. If you love each other, and are both active in the relationship, then you will both want to work towards the same positive end result. Never forget that you are each on the same side.
Send An Apology Letter
A nice touch after you have made up is to mail your companion a letter saying that you are sorry for hurting their feelings. Try to make your feelings about the argument known, but remember to let your lover know that you do not want to argue anymore. Possibly send a present along with it, or a photo that will help remind them of a joyful time you both spent together.
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