The Law of Attraction says that,"Whatever we see ourselves achieving, we will eventually get." This can be either a positive goal or a negative goal. Can we use the Law of Attraction to get the person of our dreams to love us?
Our realities and destiny is within our control but we don't have control over someone Else's. If two people are not on the same page about something, let alone reading the same book, it's not going to work.
For example, let's say you are a single guy and you see a girl that you are attracted to. But she won't give you the time of day even though she is standing right next to a clock. Or, she likes you just as much as you like her but you two can't get connected for whatever reason.
If you two were on the same thought patterns, there wouldn't be any problem getting together. It shouldn't be an issue getting together with someone if they are a perfect match for you.
In this scenario, this relationship is not right for you. The universe nor you can make this girl fall madly in love with you.
Hey, don't get discouraged, the universe can help you. It will show you what type of energy you are emanating out in the atmosphere.
Whatever beliefs you have, so will the universe. For example, you really like this certain female and she seems to like you but your vibrational wires keep getting crossed.
It is often that we are not clear to the universe what we want. Our vibrational energy is not being seen clearly by the universe. So, the universe will often send females that might be right for you. "Is she the right one?" Or "What about her right here?" "What about this one?"
And your reply would be to the universe, "Yeah, You got it, but I want her to be petite." Or you might say,"She's great but she needs to lose weight" You understand where I am coming from?
Even though this female is not a perfect fit for you, she does fit your vibrational energy. So, if she has a great personality, your energy is positive as well. The women you typically attract is a good indicator on what kind of man you are.
So, where do you go from here? I suggest you do this:
I know this is easier said than done, but you have to shift your focus onto something else and realize this girl is not the one. She is only the precursor to the girl who the universe will ultimately deliver to you.
Ask yourself and be honest,"What do you really like about her?" What has you drawn to her? If you mentally hone in on what it is you exactly like about this girl, the universe will get a more clearer view of what is a perfect match for you.
You must remember that you don't know anything about this girl; so you really don't know if she is a right fit for you. You can trust the universe. The universe is looking at a panoramic view of what is going on.
If you can't seem to get connected with this girl, there's an unseen reason why this is. Don't force it or get frustrated about it. Frustration is nothing but negative energy. If you are having this feeling, you are going about this all wrong. This is for the universe to handle not you.
Obsessing about being single and lonely will do nothing positive for you. Instead, find some activity that makes you feel good and productive. If you see your being single as being negative and lonely, you will always find yourself in negative situations.
Try focusing on what is positive in your life instead of what is negative.
You never know, tomorrow you might meet your perfect match. At the end of the day ask yourself, if this girl you like isn't the perfect one for you, do you really want to be with her? In the long run after the newness wears off, you might make each other miserable.
Then you might say,"What if the right girl never comes along?" Shouldn't I be grateful for someone whom is a near match for me, after all no one is perfect? I know how you feel. I've been in that same lonely place. Facing loneliness forever is not a good feeling.
We see it all the time in commercials. We hear it in the conversations of our family and friends; and the media is cramming it down our throats of how important it is to find a mate.
The world we live in teaches us that we are not complete if we are single. In order to be complete, we need to be with someone; and we need to find that someone while we are attractive and young.
To be honest with you, true love and attractive youthfulness have nothing to do with one another. If this were true, only young people would find love and older people would never experience it.
Finding the right woman is dependent upon your vibrational energy in the atmosphere. This is true. Have you ever noticed how well two drunks or two Type A personality people seem to fit perfectly well with one another? This is the energy they gave off and found one another.
What you should do now is stop trying to find the perfect girl. The universe will send her to you. She is not on any dating sites or in any online chat rooms. Until the universe sends you your true love, learn to love who you are, and strengthen your weak points.
Meanwhile, pay close attention to what you really admire about the women who are already in your life. Don't let the fear of being alone force you to settle for less than what you want. You should enjoy the single life because there is nothing wrong with being single.
When being single no longer bothers you and you are OK with being alone with yourself, the universe will hone in on this positive vibration and see a more clearer picture of you.
When you send out positive energy like this, you begin to see a change in your circumstances. And without a moments notice, you will meet the girl you have been waiting for.
Our realities and destiny is within our control but we don't have control over someone Else's. If two people are not on the same page about something, let alone reading the same book, it's not going to work.
For example, let's say you are a single guy and you see a girl that you are attracted to. But she won't give you the time of day even though she is standing right next to a clock. Or, she likes you just as much as you like her but you two can't get connected for whatever reason.
If you two were on the same thought patterns, there wouldn't be any problem getting together. It shouldn't be an issue getting together with someone if they are a perfect match for you.
In this scenario, this relationship is not right for you. The universe nor you can make this girl fall madly in love with you.
Hey, don't get discouraged, the universe can help you. It will show you what type of energy you are emanating out in the atmosphere.
Whatever beliefs you have, so will the universe. For example, you really like this certain female and she seems to like you but your vibrational wires keep getting crossed.
It is often that we are not clear to the universe what we want. Our vibrational energy is not being seen clearly by the universe. So, the universe will often send females that might be right for you. "Is she the right one?" Or "What about her right here?" "What about this one?"
And your reply would be to the universe, "Yeah, You got it, but I want her to be petite." Or you might say,"She's great but she needs to lose weight" You understand where I am coming from?
Even though this female is not a perfect fit for you, she does fit your vibrational energy. So, if she has a great personality, your energy is positive as well. The women you typically attract is a good indicator on what kind of man you are.
So, where do you go from here? I suggest you do this:
I know this is easier said than done, but you have to shift your focus onto something else and realize this girl is not the one. She is only the precursor to the girl who the universe will ultimately deliver to you.
Ask yourself and be honest,"What do you really like about her?" What has you drawn to her? If you mentally hone in on what it is you exactly like about this girl, the universe will get a more clearer view of what is a perfect match for you.
You must remember that you don't know anything about this girl; so you really don't know if she is a right fit for you. You can trust the universe. The universe is looking at a panoramic view of what is going on.
If you can't seem to get connected with this girl, there's an unseen reason why this is. Don't force it or get frustrated about it. Frustration is nothing but negative energy. If you are having this feeling, you are going about this all wrong. This is for the universe to handle not you.
Obsessing about being single and lonely will do nothing positive for you. Instead, find some activity that makes you feel good and productive. If you see your being single as being negative and lonely, you will always find yourself in negative situations.
Try focusing on what is positive in your life instead of what is negative.
You never know, tomorrow you might meet your perfect match. At the end of the day ask yourself, if this girl you like isn't the perfect one for you, do you really want to be with her? In the long run after the newness wears off, you might make each other miserable.
Then you might say,"What if the right girl never comes along?" Shouldn't I be grateful for someone whom is a near match for me, after all no one is perfect? I know how you feel. I've been in that same lonely place. Facing loneliness forever is not a good feeling.
We see it all the time in commercials. We hear it in the conversations of our family and friends; and the media is cramming it down our throats of how important it is to find a mate.
The world we live in teaches us that we are not complete if we are single. In order to be complete, we need to be with someone; and we need to find that someone while we are attractive and young.
To be honest with you, true love and attractive youthfulness have nothing to do with one another. If this were true, only young people would find love and older people would never experience it.
Finding the right woman is dependent upon your vibrational energy in the atmosphere. This is true. Have you ever noticed how well two drunks or two Type A personality people seem to fit perfectly well with one another? This is the energy they gave off and found one another.
What you should do now is stop trying to find the perfect girl. The universe will send her to you. She is not on any dating sites or in any online chat rooms. Until the universe sends you your true love, learn to love who you are, and strengthen your weak points.
Meanwhile, pay close attention to what you really admire about the women who are already in your life. Don't let the fear of being alone force you to settle for less than what you want. You should enjoy the single life because there is nothing wrong with being single.
When being single no longer bothers you and you are OK with being alone with yourself, the universe will hone in on this positive vibration and see a more clearer picture of you.
When you send out positive energy like this, you begin to see a change in your circumstances. And without a moments notice, you will meet the girl you have been waiting for.
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