In a world that has become quite feminized it is not shocking to learn that many men struggle with how to get a girlfriend fast. Why is this you ask? Men struggle with the definition of what it means to be masculine. A lot of guys are under the impression that dressing masculine is all it takes to actually be masculine but what they fail to realize is, masculinity has more to do with attitude and actions. The real magic happens when you can bring all three aspects together, attracting women is much easier.
Decisiveness
Women have some definitive criteria when it comes to men and a man who can make decisions usually tops the list. Decisiveness tells her you are not afraid of tough choices or taking the lead. That being said you do not want to come across as a "my way or the highway" type of person, just a strong confident man who knows what he wants. Decision-making can be tough, especially if you have made some poor choices in the past but do not let that lead you into procrastinating. Instead, seize the day when opportunities come your way! Otherwise, you will always operate from a powerless position and women never find this attractive in a man.
Be more Self-Reliant
If you fail to be self-reliant in your approach as a man, then you are definitely not doing a good job of asserting your masculine power and dominance. The following are examples of a lack of self-reliance: You allow others to be accountable for things in your life that you should be accountable for, and you let the women in your life dictate what to do for the weekend and where to go on dates.
If you fail to be self-reliant, you will always fail to satisfy a woman's fundamental need to feel safe. To combat this problem, create a list in all of the situations in your life where you are handing over accountability to other people in areas that you should be managing yourself. This list will empower you to pick out areas in your life that offer you the chance to take control and, thus, become manlier.
Trustworthy
It may sound cliche, but honesty truly is the best policy. This goes much deeper than always answering questions honestly as well; you have to make your actions match your words. It does not take long to destroy your credibility by acting masculine but failing to back it up!
If you apply these principles, you'll be surprised how easy it can be to get girls to like you. Basically, for instance if you state that you are going to do something, make sure you actually go through with it. If you are not willing or able to follow through with a commitment, never agree to it in the first place. This rule applies whether the commitment is small or large. When you give a specific time you will be somewhere, move heaven and earth to do so. Same goes for returning phone calls, emails and letters. This lets people know they can count on you, especially women which means you get more respect and will be taken seriously.
Decisiveness
Women have some definitive criteria when it comes to men and a man who can make decisions usually tops the list. Decisiveness tells her you are not afraid of tough choices or taking the lead. That being said you do not want to come across as a "my way or the highway" type of person, just a strong confident man who knows what he wants. Decision-making can be tough, especially if you have made some poor choices in the past but do not let that lead you into procrastinating. Instead, seize the day when opportunities come your way! Otherwise, you will always operate from a powerless position and women never find this attractive in a man.
Be more Self-Reliant
If you fail to be self-reliant in your approach as a man, then you are definitely not doing a good job of asserting your masculine power and dominance. The following are examples of a lack of self-reliance: You allow others to be accountable for things in your life that you should be accountable for, and you let the women in your life dictate what to do for the weekend and where to go on dates.
If you fail to be self-reliant, you will always fail to satisfy a woman's fundamental need to feel safe. To combat this problem, create a list in all of the situations in your life where you are handing over accountability to other people in areas that you should be managing yourself. This list will empower you to pick out areas in your life that offer you the chance to take control and, thus, become manlier.
Trustworthy
It may sound cliche, but honesty truly is the best policy. This goes much deeper than always answering questions honestly as well; you have to make your actions match your words. It does not take long to destroy your credibility by acting masculine but failing to back it up!
If you apply these principles, you'll be surprised how easy it can be to get girls to like you. Basically, for instance if you state that you are going to do something, make sure you actually go through with it. If you are not willing or able to follow through with a commitment, never agree to it in the first place. This rule applies whether the commitment is small or large. When you give a specific time you will be somewhere, move heaven and earth to do so. Same goes for returning phone calls, emails and letters. This lets people know they can count on you, especially women which means you get more respect and will be taken seriously.
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