Don't you hate having conversations which are all alike? Well, women hate that too. No one wants to hear the same questions over and over, so if you can make yourself stand out, it's a lot easier to get someone's attention and start building attraction. So, how to talk to a girl you like?. Women are often approached by men and asked more or less the same questions every time; the result is a series of dull conversations which lead nowhere.
Make A Statement
How do these initial interactions usually play out? More like an interrogation than polite conversation! Instead of bombarding her with a ton of questions, make a few statements. In the end, you will still obtain the same information but at the same time, you will make an impression on her. Even making a wrong statement will open up the conversation as she corrects you and makes way for a more intimate conversation. On the off chance, you are right you will impress her and instantly build rapport.
Emotional Connections
As a rule, men do not find talking about goals, insecurities or emotions very easy to do, particularly with a woman they have just met and would like to make an impression upon. However, if you want to move the conversation to a deeper level it is imperative that you open up a bit. Connecting on an emotional level is a great way to build rapport and create attraction. You may feel more comfortable with any topic other than your emotions and you were probably raised to avoid vulnerability with women under any circumstances but making this change could vastly improve your love life!
However, women tend to see vulnerability as an asset, since they are much more likely than their male counterparts to acknowledge the strength that it can take to open up to someone else. If you can open up to a woman (without going overboard, of course), you'll have a much better chance of starting a conversation and keeping it going.
Making a Connection Emotionally
If you apply these principles, you'll be surprised how easy it can be to get girls. Basically, at this point, you should understand the significance of opening up to women you find attractive. Now you probably would like to know how to accomplish this feat. Your best opener will be to talk about the best things (or worst) in your life. These could be current events or even things that happened while you were growing up. For some people this may be too intense, in which case you can delve into your hopes, dreams and passions. By doing so, you are spending emotional currency and which will encourage her to reciprocate. All you have to do at this point is be willing to listen and continue the exchange. You never know, this could be the start of something special.
Make A Statement
How do these initial interactions usually play out? More like an interrogation than polite conversation! Instead of bombarding her with a ton of questions, make a few statements. In the end, you will still obtain the same information but at the same time, you will make an impression on her. Even making a wrong statement will open up the conversation as she corrects you and makes way for a more intimate conversation. On the off chance, you are right you will impress her and instantly build rapport.
Emotional Connections
As a rule, men do not find talking about goals, insecurities or emotions very easy to do, particularly with a woman they have just met and would like to make an impression upon. However, if you want to move the conversation to a deeper level it is imperative that you open up a bit. Connecting on an emotional level is a great way to build rapport and create attraction. You may feel more comfortable with any topic other than your emotions and you were probably raised to avoid vulnerability with women under any circumstances but making this change could vastly improve your love life!
However, women tend to see vulnerability as an asset, since they are much more likely than their male counterparts to acknowledge the strength that it can take to open up to someone else. If you can open up to a woman (without going overboard, of course), you'll have a much better chance of starting a conversation and keeping it going.
Making a Connection Emotionally
If you apply these principles, you'll be surprised how easy it can be to get girls. Basically, at this point, you should understand the significance of opening up to women you find attractive. Now you probably would like to know how to accomplish this feat. Your best opener will be to talk about the best things (or worst) in your life. These could be current events or even things that happened while you were growing up. For some people this may be too intense, in which case you can delve into your hopes, dreams and passions. By doing so, you are spending emotional currency and which will encourage her to reciprocate. All you have to do at this point is be willing to listen and continue the exchange. You never know, this could be the start of something special.
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Approach and seduce beautiful women with confidence! Dating coach to shy guys, Andy Aidam, shows you ways to attract women with confidence. If this post was useful to you check out Shy Guy Dating Advice for more handy info.