Do you wonder what your ex girlfriend is thinking and why she has turned so sour towards you? What do you need to do to make her at least think about getting back together? Why won't she even seriously consider it? You have tried all the normal things like talking with her, agreeing with her and promising to change but still she acts like she doesn't care about you at all. What happened to her and what can you do to get back in her good graces again? Why won't she even think about it?
The truth is that the reasons that she gave you for breaking up with you and the sole reason for not wanting to get back together with you might surprise you. The real reason might even elude her at this moment but it is the truth. While she probably is genuinely angry with you and quite frustrated with your attempts to get her to agree to get back together, the real reason why she is gone from your life is something very different than what you think it is. Yes, the real reason why she isn't with you has nothing to do with what came out of her mouth.
The real reason why she broke up with you and why she hasn't come back to you is because of what she is feeling emotionally. A woman makes all of her decisions based upon emotions or feelings. Sure, there might have been the "straw that broke the camel's back" sort of incident that made her leave but it was probably more how you made her feel or how you didn't make her feel that led to your breakup.
Chances are that you simply weren't making her feel the kind of emotions that a woman needs to feel in a relationship in order for her to feel loved and for her to feel secure enough to love you back. All of this has nothing to do with buying her gifts or telling her that you love her ten times a day. Although, telling her that you love her and making her believe it would have been a step in the right direction back when you were together. Making her feel like she was beautiful and pretty and appreciated and important in her life are basically what a woman looks for when they're in a relationship. They need to feel these emotions. Let me explain.
Almost every decision a woman makes is based upon how she feels. Think about something as simple as buying a pair of shoes. Women's shoes are notoriously uncomfortable and they hurt her feet. But a woman will spend several hundred dollars on a pair of shoes that don't even fit her if they make her feel pretty or cute. Even if she doesn't have that kind of money in her budget, if they make her feel attractive she will buy them in spite of the fact that she knows that they're going to hurt her feet.
For a woman, your ex girlfriend in particular, how she feels when she is around you will determine whether she stays with you or not. If she feels pretty and loved and important then she will put up with all sorts of things that she simply would not tollerate if you weren't making her feel those warm and fuzzy emotions. When she stopped feeling happy and cute and loved, things started to circle the drain and she probably started to become very negative about you and some of your habits. This should have been a huge red flag for you and a wake up call that you needed to do something pretty quick to change her image of you in her mind.
Inversely, if you know how to make her feel important and pretty and like the most beautiful woman in the world or if she remembers how you made her feel then you stand a very good chance of winning her back. Of course, you can't just go and tell her that she's beautiful or pretty. You can't just tell her that she's smart or that she looks great in those jeans. Right now her guard is up and your value as a man has been trashed in her mind.
You first have to change how she thinks about you. You're going to have to subtly and gingerly remind her or jog her memory into remembering what it was like when things were good between the two of you. You're going to have to help her to trust you again and rebuild your relationship so you can get a second chance at making her feel those wonderful emotions that every woman needs to feel in order to fall in love again. Understand that we're talking about a woman here and her emotions can change in a moment so you can use this to your advantage when you're trying to get your ex girlfriend back. Never under estimate how quickly a woman can go from hating you to loving you. You can count on that!
The truth is that the reasons that she gave you for breaking up with you and the sole reason for not wanting to get back together with you might surprise you. The real reason might even elude her at this moment but it is the truth. While she probably is genuinely angry with you and quite frustrated with your attempts to get her to agree to get back together, the real reason why she is gone from your life is something very different than what you think it is. Yes, the real reason why she isn't with you has nothing to do with what came out of her mouth.
The real reason why she broke up with you and why she hasn't come back to you is because of what she is feeling emotionally. A woman makes all of her decisions based upon emotions or feelings. Sure, there might have been the "straw that broke the camel's back" sort of incident that made her leave but it was probably more how you made her feel or how you didn't make her feel that led to your breakup.
Chances are that you simply weren't making her feel the kind of emotions that a woman needs to feel in a relationship in order for her to feel loved and for her to feel secure enough to love you back. All of this has nothing to do with buying her gifts or telling her that you love her ten times a day. Although, telling her that you love her and making her believe it would have been a step in the right direction back when you were together. Making her feel like she was beautiful and pretty and appreciated and important in her life are basically what a woman looks for when they're in a relationship. They need to feel these emotions. Let me explain.
Almost every decision a woman makes is based upon how she feels. Think about something as simple as buying a pair of shoes. Women's shoes are notoriously uncomfortable and they hurt her feet. But a woman will spend several hundred dollars on a pair of shoes that don't even fit her if they make her feel pretty or cute. Even if she doesn't have that kind of money in her budget, if they make her feel attractive she will buy them in spite of the fact that she knows that they're going to hurt her feet.
For a woman, your ex girlfriend in particular, how she feels when she is around you will determine whether she stays with you or not. If she feels pretty and loved and important then she will put up with all sorts of things that she simply would not tollerate if you weren't making her feel those warm and fuzzy emotions. When she stopped feeling happy and cute and loved, things started to circle the drain and she probably started to become very negative about you and some of your habits. This should have been a huge red flag for you and a wake up call that you needed to do something pretty quick to change her image of you in her mind.
Inversely, if you know how to make her feel important and pretty and like the most beautiful woman in the world or if she remembers how you made her feel then you stand a very good chance of winning her back. Of course, you can't just go and tell her that she's beautiful or pretty. You can't just tell her that she's smart or that she looks great in those jeans. Right now her guard is up and your value as a man has been trashed in her mind.
You first have to change how she thinks about you. You're going to have to subtly and gingerly remind her or jog her memory into remembering what it was like when things were good between the two of you. You're going to have to help her to trust you again and rebuild your relationship so you can get a second chance at making her feel those wonderful emotions that every woman needs to feel in order to fall in love again. Understand that we're talking about a woman here and her emotions can change in a moment so you can use this to your advantage when you're trying to get your ex girlfriend back. Never under estimate how quickly a woman can go from hating you to loving you. You can count on that!
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