Online Relationships-Two Sides of using them

By Daisy Bruce


People view online relationships differently. There are people who say that there is no honesty while others view online relationships have worked since ladies and men who are single have been able to find soulmates. Did you know that there are people who started their relationships on dating websites and social networking sites and are now happily married or in a stable relationship?

Though dating internet sites and social networking websites have enabled people to find their soulmates it does not mean that they are not considered as a form of cheating. Is your wife, girlfriend, boyfriend or hubby spending a substantial amount of time on the computer? If this is the case you could be wondering since you do not know what they are doing.

There are usually two sides of the story when it comes down to online relationship. There's the part of using social networking site. Your partner will claim that there is nothing wrong creating his/her profile on the networking website. Therefore, there's claim that having an online relationship through social network website isn't part of cheating.

This is because your partner is only using the networking website to interact with buddies and other folks. So it is logical that your spouse has neither kissed nor done anything unfaithful with the people they've been chatting to at the other end of the computer. But, why do men cheat and lie when writing their profiles on social networking sites?

The second side as far as online relationships are concerned is the side of using dating sites. This crops up when a lady or a guy catches their partner dating online. It is very important to note that nowadays many people do not just chat online but they meet physically. Nowadays there are many dating websites that make it easy for the users to start a relationship online and later on meet with each other. This has led some partners to cheat on their boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and wives.

It is important to look at the consequences of cheating using dating websites. If you suspect that your boyfriend, husband, girlfriend or wife is having an online relationship, there are many steps that you can take to confirm if it is true. You must try and find out the behavior of your partner while he/she uses the computer.

If you managed to enter the computer room and your partner doesn't want you to see what he/she doing while using the computer then there is a reason you should be suspicious. Does your spouse change what is appearing on the screen when you enter the room?

Again, your partner should not create his/her profile on any of the dating site. Why should your partner create a profile and he/she has already found soulmate who is you. Dating web sites are intended to be used by people who have not found soulmates. However, there isn't anything wrong your partner using social networking sites as long as he/she isn't using it to be unfaithful.

If you have suspected your spouse is having online relationships, it's good to think about the consequences of your actions. Sadly, many people don't know how to act when they realize that their partners are cheating on them. You need to set a plan before you decide to confront your partner. Remember that such relationships can develop into something bigger than just chatting.




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