Hi. Chances are you're looking for some additional advice when out on a date with someone you're trying to impress. Or maybe you've just met this girl. One of the most confusing situations is when you get interrupted and what you should do. The question is, how will you handle this situation?
What we mean by an interrupt is when you're in a conversation with a girl and somebody else gets in the way. Sometimes it's intentional and sometimes it's not. It could be the bartender, the waiter, or most likely another suitor.
The thing is, you don't need to lose your cool as most people usually do when this happens. It is recommended that you just keep going.
It's a fact that when someone is interrupted, they more than likely will shut down and let the interrupter take over the new conversation. We are taught to be polite but in fact we are shutting down which in turn we lose our aura here.
The most common reaction is for the guy to shut down and whimper away. The girl recognizes this reaction as it happens all the time. But when you hold your ground and join the new conversation and interrupt the new suitor, then you are seen in a totally new light.
Some guys even wander off when her attention goes to the interrupter, cursing to themselves that they let her slip away. Instead of cursing this situation it is actually an opportunity. Just like when two male lions battle to see who is the alpha male of the pride, if you let your guard down and whimper into a quiet shut down, you are giving away your alpha status to the newcomer.
The next step after you've held your ground and joined the new conversation is to interrupt the new suitor. Not only is this unexpected by the girl, but will also be unexpected by the interrupter.
So if you interrupt the new guy, they in turn may shut down or wander off, realizing they have lost the battle. Joining the new conversation is the key and even being a little obnoxious is a far better reaction than to shutting down and showing weakness.
When out on a date, always expect the interruption and be ready for it. Join the new conversation and throw in some cheeky-funny and slightly obnoxious lines like "and now it's back to us" to get your point across. This is sure to work and it will be funny to watch how the other guy reacts.
If he holds ground then maybe you have a new ally at the end of the day. Maybe there's a bit of respect there between the two guys but the worst thing to do is shut down.
There are tons of dating tips like the one above in the link I've left for you in the resource box. Go on and give it a click and I can promise you your dating skills will improve remarkably.
What we mean by an interrupt is when you're in a conversation with a girl and somebody else gets in the way. Sometimes it's intentional and sometimes it's not. It could be the bartender, the waiter, or most likely another suitor.
The thing is, you don't need to lose your cool as most people usually do when this happens. It is recommended that you just keep going.
It's a fact that when someone is interrupted, they more than likely will shut down and let the interrupter take over the new conversation. We are taught to be polite but in fact we are shutting down which in turn we lose our aura here.
The most common reaction is for the guy to shut down and whimper away. The girl recognizes this reaction as it happens all the time. But when you hold your ground and join the new conversation and interrupt the new suitor, then you are seen in a totally new light.
Some guys even wander off when her attention goes to the interrupter, cursing to themselves that they let her slip away. Instead of cursing this situation it is actually an opportunity. Just like when two male lions battle to see who is the alpha male of the pride, if you let your guard down and whimper into a quiet shut down, you are giving away your alpha status to the newcomer.
The next step after you've held your ground and joined the new conversation is to interrupt the new suitor. Not only is this unexpected by the girl, but will also be unexpected by the interrupter.
So if you interrupt the new guy, they in turn may shut down or wander off, realizing they have lost the battle. Joining the new conversation is the key and even being a little obnoxious is a far better reaction than to shutting down and showing weakness.
When out on a date, always expect the interruption and be ready for it. Join the new conversation and throw in some cheeky-funny and slightly obnoxious lines like "and now it's back to us" to get your point across. This is sure to work and it will be funny to watch how the other guy reacts.
If he holds ground then maybe you have a new ally at the end of the day. Maybe there's a bit of respect there between the two guys but the worst thing to do is shut down.
There are tons of dating tips like the one above in the link I've left for you in the resource box. Go on and give it a click and I can promise you your dating skills will improve remarkably.
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